October 2026

Please note: Any client stories or examples shared on this blog are composites drawn from common themes across many experiences. All names are fictitious, and nothing here represents any single person or actual client. Have you ever found yourself reacting in a way that feels old and automatic, almost like you’re on autopilot? Maybe it’s a flash of anger when you feel criticized, a retreat into silence when a conversation gets difficult, or a need to please everyone around you, even at your own expense. These patterns, which may now cause us pain or frustration, sometimes began as ways to cope with...

As a therapist, my world is built on connection, trust, and holding space for the deepest parts of the human experience. We’re trained to listen, to attune, and to guide others toward healing. But what happens when the skills we’ve honed within the therapy room begin to find a voice outside of it? For therapists, selling online courses, books, or workshops, the question is often personal: Can I charge for what I know and remain true to why I became a therapist? Paid educational resources can be compatible with ethical practice when they offer accurate information, respect professional boundaries, and leave people...

Please note: Any client stories or examples shared on this blog are composites drawn from common themes across many experiences. All names are fictitious, and nothing here represents any single person or actual client. Have you ever scrolled through social media and felt a pang of envy seeing curated feeds of endless smiles, perfect vacations, and triumphant moments? It’s easy to look at this and think, "Why can't I feel that happy all the time?" This pressure to maintain a constant state of bliss is something I call "The Happiness Fallacy." It's a pervasive, modern myth that happiness is a permanent...