“Just get over it.” “Suck it up.” “Stop being so sensitive.” Many of us have heard phrases like these throughout our lives. Some of us may have even learned to say them quietly to ourselves whenever we feel overwhelmed, hurt, anxious, tired, or unsure. We live in a culture that often praises toughness, productivity, and resilience. There is nothing wrong with wanting to persevere through difficult moments. The problem is that perseverance is often confused with emotional suppression. We are taught to push through discomfort, ignore the signals from our bodies, minimize our needs, and keep going no matter what. Over time, this “suck it...