Have you ever had a strong feeling about something, only to talk yourself out of it moments later? Maybe you sensed that a relationship was no longer healthy, but told yourself you were being “too sensitive.” Maybe a job looked wonderful on paper, yet something in your body felt tense, heavy, or unsure. Still, you pushed that feeling aside and convinced yourself you should be grateful. This quiet inner pattern is often called self-gaslighting. Self-gaslighting happens when you dismiss, minimize, or question your own feelings, needs, memories, or instincts. Instead of trusting your inner experience, you begin to argue with it. You may...