You’ve probably heard someone say, “They have a lot of baggage.” Maybe you’ve even wondered what your history might bring into a new relationship, a new job, or a new chapter of life. We use the phrase so casually, but emotional baggage isn’t just a stack of old memories or past heartbreaks. From a trauma-informed, holistic perspective, emotional baggage often lives in the nervous system. It shows up in the body. It influences how safe (or unsafe) you feel, how you interpret other people, and how easily you can return to calm after stress. Let’s break down what emotional baggage really is,...